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I don’t think many of us will look back on 2021 with unalloyed joy! We almost have a duty to look forward to 2022, in the not-very-convincing expectation that it won’t at least be worse!
Personally, my year has been bound by the forced realisation
that I’m no spring chicken – no matter how much I try to convince myself
otherwise. Sadly, my titanium knee has started to degrade, much as I expected.
I also have been made acutely aware of how much my energy levels have fallen.
To put it in a nutshell, my get-up-and-go has got-up-and-went! All this has
been coupled with an equally savage falling off with my OHs health. As someone
said, “Growing old is no game for cissies!”
One thing that makes it worse is that neither myself nor my
OH are in the first flush of youth. Realistically, we don’t have that many
years left (not complaining – just do the maths) and that’s two years now of
lost and missed opportunities, mostly involving our granddaughter, then family
and friends. Still, its no use trying to blame a virus. They are notoriously
unsympathetic!
However, and this is the important bit, – NONE of this is
going to stop me trying to wring every ounce of joy from every single incident,
on every day of the year! I urge you all to do the same.
Meanwhile, back at the ranch……
Andrew Holgate, Literary Editor of the Times and Sunday
Times, produced a list of the Best Books of the Year for “Every Genre”. In so
doing he left off the LARGEST genre of all – Romance, in any of its tropes!
Like many friends who write, I was appalled by the pure
snobbishness on display. Thankfully, the wonderful RNA strode in to bat for ALL
of us authors of romance. Their letter is in the link.(I signed it too)
Andrew Holgate himself seems to have gone to ground since he
penned his original article. However, the RNA is made of sterner stuff. Four of
their more successful members produced this excellent article:
https://romanticnovelistsassociation.org/2021/12/love-in-the-time-of-snobbery/
The article has garnered support from all quarters, This very readable riposte came through Harper Collins Australia, penned by https://www.facebook.com/VictoriaBrookmn
https://www.harpercollins.com.au/blog/2021/12/15/victoria-brookman-in-defence-of-womens-fiction/
https://romanticnovelistsassociation.org/membership/
You and I can help by using the hashtag #RespectRomFic on ALL your
book-related posts, whether in Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. Remember, Caring
is SHARING!
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To close, for the New Year – 2022 - and still “Next Year” at
the time of writing, there is always hope. We have been lucky here in that we haven’t,
as far as we know, lost any friends or family to the virus. For that we are
truly thankful.
Have a fantastic 2022 !
The RNA conference is usually held at a venue suitable to cater for guests travelling from afar. The University of Lancaster and Leeds Trinity University have both been used in the past. For members of the RNA, the weekend in July is one of the highlights of the RNA's calendar and I have always wanted to go, but due to my business commitments, a weekend away during the summer was not possible. However, in late 2019 things changed on the home-front and I was free to attend, but then Covid struck and everything was transferred to online. It didn't seem the same so I didn't attend in 2020, but this year I made it a priority to find out what the conference was all about, albeit from the comfort of my own home. I saw my attendance to the online event as a precursor to the real one... a sort of dipping my toe in the water before I dived in next year!
I enjoyed the experience, which ran from late Thursday afternoon to Saturday evening. Each talk had a private zoom link and was well attended, with nil technical glitches as far as I was aware, which is a miracle in itself. Below is a summary of my experience with bullet points of the advice I took away from the talks.
Thursday
Practice Makes Pitch Perfect
Approximately twelve (brave) authors pitched their novels to agents Juliet Pickering, Kate Burke and Sian Ellis-Martin from the Blake Friedmann Agency, who subsequently offered feedback. I say brave, as they pitched in front of the audience, whereas pitches are usually private one-on-one meetings. This was an excellent opportunity to see how others do it and put the intense experience into perspective.
The feedback was informative and specific to each pitch but the general advice was:-
Be positive and enthusiastic about your novel.
Be clear about what the story is about.
Don't get bogged down in what emotions you want your story to convey to the reader. Agents are interested in the plot and your ability to write and the emotions will follow but only if the first two elements are there.
Friday
121 Pitches
Those attending had the opportunity to pitch to an agent or editor. Needless to say, the demand for these slots was huge, as was the administration task to sort out the hundreds of requests received. Those lucky enough to be allocated a pitch was provided with a zoom link for the ten minute slot and instructions to submit the first chapter, synopsis and cover letter prior to the event. If the agent or editor liked the premises of the story, saw potential in working collaboratively with the writer and loved the writing style, they could request a full manuscript to assess its potential further. It will be several weeks, even months, before successful pitches become more public, and those writers will be the lucky few. However, all writers will have been given feedback and advice on their submission from a professional in the industry, which is like gold dust in itself.
Saturday
Building a Writer's Resilience
Hosted by author Nicola Cornick, international best selling author, Dinah Jefferies, shared her experience of building resilience and revealed that even best selling writers can suffer from self-doubt, lack of confidence and impostor syndrome.
Below is a summary of the advice given:-
Bad trauma and experience can be used positively by adding authenticity to one's writing.
Take time out and look after yourself. Not all pressures are external, they can be internal too.
Train yourself not to compare yourself to others.
Regarding feelings of jealousy, be aware that we don't really know what is going on in other people's lives.
A writing career is up and down for everyone.
Rejection is hard. Research who you pitch to to reduce the possibility. While waiting don't stress, just write another book to occupy you.
Don't read reviews, you'll only remember the bad ones.
A talk about the role of the agent followed from agent Felicity Trew. It was packed with information and Felicity's enthusiasm for her job shone through.
Screenwriter and senior lecturer, Marie Macneill, walked us through The Proposal film, using the key plot points to show us how to structure your rom com to create movie magic.
Award winning author Fiona Lucas discussed the anatomy of a scene, followed by Rhea Kurien, editorial director of Orion Dash,who explained how digital publishing works.
The weekend ended with author and podcast host, Dorothy Koomson, chatting with Romance Writers of America Lifetime Achievement Award winner Beverly Jenkins. Beverly's wise words, delivered in a calm, no nonsense way, was a joy to listen to as she chatted about her life and how, as a youth, she devoured history from the journals of her local library. As a writer, she hopes her books educate readers about the real history of black people, whilst at the same time they enjoy a romantic read. Author of over forty novels, with decades of writing behind her and a deep love of history, Beverly Jenkins knows what she is talking about. "I was black before it became fashionable," she said at one point. This interview is well worth a listen when it is finally uploaded onto The Happy Author podcast.
I hope I will have the opportunity to attend the RNA conference in person in the future, in the meantime I shall take on board all the advice given and channel it into my writing career for the future. Writing is a continual journey of gaining experience and wisdom, whether its from the research you do, from your own successes or failures, or gaining knowledge from your peers. The RNA conference is one of many opportunities available to a writer The advice may or may not be used, but the trick is not to be too proud, arrogant or stubborn to listen to it in the first place.
As for the partying and social networking... well enjoying a drink (or two) with other members of the RNA will have to wait until the time we finally meet face to face again.
February... the month of love! Not only do we have Valentine's Day, but we also have the Romantic Novelists' Association's month long celebration of romantic fiction! Now I know this is the last week of February and you may feel it is too late to mention the celebrations, but hashtags have the added benefit of not only following posts and suggestions in real time, but you can also look back on previous social media conversations. So let's not waste any more time... come with me and explore what has been happening in the world of romance...
On 1st February, 2021 The Romantic Novelists’ Association (RNA) announced the shortlists for their prestigious 2021 Romantic Novel Awards. This event is the only national literary awards to solely focus on rewarding excellence in romantic fiction, so I am thrilled that Daniel's Daughter is a finalist in the Historical Romantic Novel Award category. Yes... that's me, top right in the red cardigan and beads!
The presentations of the awards will be held at an online event on the 8th March, 2021. It will start at 7pm and the awards will be presented by actor and presenter, Larry Lamb. You can watch it live, a link to the event will be posted nearer the time here or on the RNA's Twitter, Facebook Page or Instagram Page.
The sub-genre shortlists and awards are below:-
The Katie Fforde Debut Romantic Novel Award:
Cow Girl, Kirsty Eyre, HarperCollins UK
The Bookshop of Second Chances, Jackie Fraser, Simon & Schuster
The Silent Treatment, Abbie Greaves, Century, Cornerstone
This Is Not a Love Story, Mary Hargreaves, Trapeze
A New Life for Ariana Byrne, Liz Hurley, Hera Books
The Authenticity Project, Clare Pooley, Bantam Press
The Libertà Books Shorter Romantic Novel Award:
A Will, a Wish and a Wedding, Kate Hardy, Mills & Boon True Love
The Warrior Knight and the Widow, Ella Matthews, Mills & Boon Historical
The Day That Changed Everything, Catherine Miller, Bookouture
Second Chance for the Single Mum, Sophie Pembroke, Mills & Boon True Love
The Return of the Disappearing Duke, Lara Temple, Mills & Boon Historical
Cinderella and the Surgeon, Scarlet Wilson, Mills & Boon Medical
The Romantic Saga Award:
The Girl from the Tanner’s Yard, Diane Allen, Pan
The Variety Girls, Tracy Baines, Ebury
The Ops Room Girls, Vicki Beeby, Canelo
Bobby’s War, Shirley Mann, Bonnier Books UK
The Orphan’s Daughter, Sandy Taylor, Bookouture
Secrets of the Lavender Girls, Kate Thompson, Hodder & Stoughton
The Romantic Comedy Novel Award:
The Garden of Forgotten Wishes, Trisha Ashley, Bantam Press
Someday at Christmas, Lizzie Byron, Hodder & Stoughton
Christmas at the Island Hotel, Jenny Colgan, Sphere, Little, Brown
One Winter’s Night, Kiley Dunbar, Hera Books
Sunny Days and Sea Breezes, Carole Matthews, Sphere, Little, Brown
The Switch, Beth O’Leary, Quercus
The Jackie Collins Romantic Thriller Award:
The Forgotten Sister, Nicola Cornick, HQ
The House by the Sea, Louise Douglas, Boldwood Books
Death Comes to Cornwall, Kate Johnson, Dash Digital, Orion
The Twins, Jane Lark, One More Chapter, HarperCollins
Escape to the Little Chateau, Marie Laval, Choc Lit
The Fantasy Romantic Novel Award:
Echoes of the Runes, Christina Courtenay, Headline Review
The Start of Us, Hannah Emery, One More Chapter, HarperCollins
The Reluctant Witch, Amelia Hopegood, Independently Published
The Cornish Connection, Amanda James, Independently Published
Someday in Paris, Olivia Lara, Aria, Head of Zeus
The Goldsboro Books Contemporary Romantic Novel Award:
Where We Belong, Anstey Harris, Simon & Schuster
My One True North, Milly Johnson, Simon & Schuster
One Day in Summer, Shari Low, Boldwood Books
Eudora Honeysett is Quite Well, Thank You, Annie Lyons, One More Chapter, HarperCollins
Christmas for Beginners, Carole Matthews, Sphere, Little, Brown
The Little Shop in Cornwall, Helen Pollard, Bookouture
Mix Tape, Jane Sanderson, Bantam Press
The Takeover, T L Swan, Montlake
The Spark, Jules Wake, One More Chapter, HarperCollins
The Goldsboro Books Historical Romantic Novel Award:
Heartbreak in the Valleys, Francesca Capaldi, Hera Books
The Coming of the Wolf, Elizabeth Chadwick, Sphere, Little, Brown
Spirited, Julie Cohen, Orion Fiction
Daniel’s Daughter, Victoria Cornwall, Choc Lit (THIS IS ME!!!)
The French Wife, Diney Costeloe, Head of Zeus
People Like Us, Louise Fein, Head of Zeus
The Lost Lights of St Kilda, Elisabeth Gifford, Corvus
Rags-to-Riches Wife, Catherine Tinley, Mills & Boon Historical
The Skylark’s Secret, Fiona Valpy, Lake Union Publishing
The Sapere Books Popular Romantic Fiction Award
Sing Me a Secret, Julie Houston, Aria, Head of Zeus
Christmas Wishes, Sue Moorcroft, Avon
Sunny Days and Sea Breezes, Carole Matthews, Sphere, Little, Brown
A Perfect Cornish Escape, Phillipa Ashley, Avon
The Two Lives of Lydia Bird, Josie Silver, Penguin
The rest of February was spent supporting the allies of romantic fiction as well as promoting its diversity.
Love My Library Week, 1st -7th February
Authors and readers shared their library stories in support of their local library.
Hashtag #LoveMyLibraryWeek
Celebrating Independent Bookshops Week, 8th – 14th February
Authors and readers posted about their bookshop heroes and why they love them.
Hashtag #LoveMyIndieBookshopWeek
Celebrating Diversity in Love, 15th – 21st February
5th February. Authors and readers shared book recommendations written by authors, or feature characters, from the LGBTQIA+ community.
17th February. Authors and readers shared book recommendations which are written by authors, or feature main characters, who have a multicultural heritage.
19th February. Authors and readers shared book recommendations written by authors, or include main characters, who are living with disabilities/chronic conditions.
Hashtag #RNADiverseLoveWeek
Celebration of romance authors and book bloggers, 22nd – 28th February
22nd February. RNA members of the organisation shared their thoughts on what the RNA means to them.
Hashtag #TheRNAAndMe
24th February, at 7pm. Live Event. Author, book blogger and head of publicity at Bookouture, Kim Nash, interviewed a panel of RNA award-winning book bloggers on the RNA Facebook page. Check out the page as the video might still be there!
25th February. Authors and readers shared their favourite books by independent authors.
Hashtag #RNAIndieAuthors.
I hope you enjoyed this retrospective look back on the Month of Love. Do you know of any other category, group or sub-genre the romance industry should celebrate? I would love to hear your thoughts.
| My first RNA event, where I was a finalist in the Joan Hessayon Award. |
| Rae, Gill and Jennifer |
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| Liz Fenwick and Brigid Coady (photo with thanks to Marie Macneill) |